Gaslighting and Blame: The Narcissist’s Tactics to Reconnect

He is handsome enough to bring you back, even if you were left for dead, as he destroyed your heart with brutality before departing. The narcissist desperately wants proof that he is attractive enough to lure you back. For the narc, it is a power trip of enormous significance to act like a total and utter jerk and yet get you to come back for more of the same. Your sphere will be stimulated by the narc, and you will be triggered while seeming to be accessible. During his call, he will say:

“Hey there, hon… I simply wanted to make sure that you were doing well. Recently, I have been considering you in my thoughts. You have always been so harsh to me, and I don’t really understand why you are doing this.

Gaslighting and shifting blame are two methods that they use in an effort to pique your interest in them and what they have to suggest. When you tell the narcissist about what happened when you last parted ways, they will tell you falsehoods and outrageous things that are not real. As you begin to protect yourself, you simultaneously go back in time and into the narc trap at the same moment.

There are a variety of possible developments that might take place. The fact that you are uninterested in him or her is, in all honesty, completely irrelevant to the narrator. They will experiment…