Hey Rebecca, sister, if you could give me your Instagram handle, I could give you some really good suggestions on how to grow your blog. I don't have any bad intentions, I was just really shocked to see the mistakes in your blog post. But it's completely up to you, sister. Because I'm pretty busy too.
And next, you need to focus on your blog's thumbnails because they're not visually appealing at all. You've probably seen my thumbnails; they're quite visually appealing. After that, you should join self-published publications on Medium.