How Female Narcissists Use Charm and Deception

Their behavior can be extremely wicked, malignant, or covert. Since females in our society are also socialized to objectify themselves, the female narcissists follow this social norm to use whatever physical assets she has to assert her power and control.

The female narcissists may use her charm and seduction with her target to gain access to resources, image, and status, but as soon as the idealization phase is over, the devaluation and discard follows. Female narcissists are likely to have a plethora of secret admirers, especially if she is attractive. While males are more likely to obtain money, female narcissists tend to excessively spend it. This may result in a highly materialistic female narcissists who enjoys spoiling herself with the best designer clothing, shoes, phone, car, travel indulging in luxuries at the expense of someone who excessively caters to her gold-digging behavior. She frequently creates love triangles with other males or females (lesbians). She enjoys masculine attention and boasts about being the object of desire. She engages in emotional and physical infidelity, usually without any remorse and with plenty of gaslighting and deception to her partner.

She brings chaos into your life. Narcissistic women feed off of drama by creating destruction, problems, and confusion. They are often so self-obsessed that they only talk about themselves, their needs, their emotions, their desires. It’s all about them as they see themselves as the most interesting and important person on earth. They post lots of pictures on social media, and they will take this to the extreme, posting excessive amounts of pictures on social media (featuring themselves and their lifestyle) for the sake of validation and attention. Female narcissists behave very conniving, self-centered, covertly, and deceitful.