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How I Learned to Understand People’s Emotions as an INTJ-A
When it comes to me, I have also gotten your ratings, and based on what I have read, it seems that we have been able to develop a stronger understanding of the feelings of other people, despite the fact that we are not very emotional or sensitive.
It is possible that we do not always know how to react because we lack the sensitive department. This is despite the fact that we are able to reason the acts of other people and that it is easier for us to identify whether someone is angry, glad, sad, or any other emotion. Given that people with the INTJ-A personality type are more likely to move quickly and make fast judgments, I am prepared to bet that you are an INTJ-A. As a result of the fact that we are aware of the reality that others have emotions and that having an understanding of those feelings is a tool for success, we are a more adapted version of the usual INTJ personality type.
In addition to the fact that we are aware of when and how to make use of the third introverted feeling, we also make use of the primary and auxiliary functions to a large degree.
The problem is that we plan less than type 5s, yet even if planning is easier than understanding others, the problem is that we plan less than type 5s.
Furthermore, if you feel that you are not being “INTJ biassed and cold introverted” enough, you can just tell yourself, “Hell, I am an evolved version who has learned how to understand people.” This will help you feel more in control of your behavior.