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How Narcissists Choose Their Victims

Waleed Ahmed
2 min readDec 22, 2024

They don’t choose losers for the same reason why a thief won’t break into an empty house with no valuables. You’re valuable and they choose those who they see value in as a way to feed into their narcissistic supply. They want smart, talented, well-balanced people to benefit from their attributes. They want someone with good qualities that can benefit them. They choose those who are strong, intelligent, good natured, kind, and genuine. They choose those who are not like them as a way to balance the difference of good verses malevolent.

Those with NPD narcissistic personality disorder has a parasite perspective, lifestyle, and motive. Parasites latch on to a host that can provide them what they need to survive. Narcissists choose a victim who will be grateful for the short-lived attention and validation that the narcissist provides. Additionally, the narcissist may see the victim as a reflection of themselves and choose them in order to feel better about themselves. Why would they choose someone who has nothing to offer, or lacking deficiently in morals, and values. Why would they choose someone who has nothing to bring to the table? This is why they do not choose losers, because losers have absolutely nothing to offer a narcissist.

Car jackers do not steal non valuable items or cars. Bank robbers do not rob closed banks. Once again thieves do not break into empty homes that has nothing of value or worth!

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Waleed Ahmed
Waleed Ahmed

Written by Waleed Ahmed

I'm Waleed Ahmed, and I'm passionate about content related to software development, 3D design, Arts, books, technology, self-improvement, Poetry and Psychology.

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