How Narcissists Destroy Your Morality and Well-Being

Feeling content with yourself, being alright with yourself, is ultimately rooted in morality.

Correct morality allows us to feel clean and peaceful inside.

Incorrect morality causes us to feel filthy (unwanted, worthless) and violent (unsettled, chaotic, ruin-seeking) inside.

It is impossible to reach a state of lasting peace and contentment while struggling with the filth and violence of immorality.

Hence to destroy a person’s emotional wellbeing, we destroy their moral reality.

Narcissists destroy you through destroying your emotional wellbeing, by destroying your morality.

This is how they do it.

They will use your good against you

• anything good you do for them is disregarded or discarded, it’s as if you did nothing good at all
• they pretend you have nothing good in you, if you did something good for them, they ignore it, pretend it didn’t happen, or treat you as if you just injured them, and in effect, cause you to believe you did something bad instead (they reframe everything good of yours into something bad)
• they make sure to repay all your good deeds with evil, disregard, ingratitude, or vindictiveness, which makes the…