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How Narcissists Use Your Vulnerabilities Against You
We should not trust a narcissist for several different reasons. We should never trust someone who we know will hurt and betray us. If you assume you should trust everyone, then you can be taken advantage of in the worst way especially by a narcissist or a toxic personality. Narcissists can be likeable, and we believe likeable people are trustworthy which is not always the truth. Their behavior can cause you to let your guard down and when you do, they will pull a fast one on you. As they don’t play fair and will throw a curb ball your way when you least expect it. Sometimes our brain is not even able to catch up with their manipulation. They feed off of depression, low-esteem, loyalty, naivety, kindness, and good nature. They really want to know what really hurts you so they can use that against you in every possible way. You will always be the one trying to adjust to what they want or need. You will feel drained and tired after being around them due to their negativity. You will always feel like you’re on a battlefield when dealing with them. You’re literally dealing with psychological warfare when dealing with someone who has NPD narcissistic personality disorder. They will destroy your self-esteem, confidence, self-worth, and ability to trust others. They are predatory abusers, and users only looking out to feed their sick twisted depravity of intentionally abusing, using…