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Love vs. Narcissism: Why They React Differently to Betrayal
This has everything to do with the nature of love.
Love has to be
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed
betrayed many many times
until it finally permanently breaks.
But then when it does, there is no more love left for you.
The person who previously loved you no longer does.
And they turn mean and ugly.
So mean and ugly is what naturally comes out when love exits the building.
When harmonization is refused.
When obedience or compliance is refused.