Narcissists and Their Favorite Lie: ‘You’ll Never Find Better

Narcissists believes the lies that they tell themselves, and the lies that they tell you. The (you’ll never find someone better than them) is one of their favorite lines and narrative that they like to tell their victims. The rationale behind this narrative is to make you think that they are the best individual you will ever find, and to inflict doubt and fear into your psyche to keep you connected to them. If they can get this narrative ingrained in your way of thinking, then they know that you will always be their narcissistic supply. This is their way to get you to feel fear of letting them go, it is part of their mind control psychological manipulation. When they utter these specific words, they know that they are losing control over you, or you are beginning to figure them out.

The truth of the narrative is actually opposite of what they’re telling you. Actually, they will never find someone or anyone better than you! Narcissists always contradict themselves when speaking, demeaning, devaluing, or manipulating their victims. Everything that they say is oppositional of the truth whenever they’re speaking to or with their victims, and it is very important to learn the translation of their words to you. Narcissists driving force is always motivated by manipulation, false sense of security, superiority complex, power, control, and arrogance.

So, if we really look closely at the words, “you will never find someone better than them”, is so ludicrous coming out of the mouth of someone who has NPD narcissistic personality disorder. Your ultimate goal is to find someone better than them, because they’re abusive, unhealthy, toxic, emotionally unhinged, developmentally immature, and not good for your emotional-mental health.