Narcissists Weaponize Your Past to Control New Victims

That depends on how he wants to manipulate that woman the same way he has manipulated you. It also depends on if he can manipulate her into believing him by either weaponizing/demonizing you, or using you as an example to get her to do what you have done for him or more.

He will either compare you to her so that she will feel the need to compete with you, and in exchange this gives the narcissist what he wants and need from the new supply interest. The comparison keeps the new supply emotional attached to him by justifying herself, and always feeling the need to be the better woman not knowing she is being manipulated by a toxic abuser.

He will either talk really bad about you, or paint you out to be the user, abuser, or manipulator. This in return would initiate the new supply intertest to empathize with him and this too gives him everything that he wants. This is very typical, and narcissists are driven by playing one victim against the other as way for them to control the narrative at their victim’s expense. She will feel the need to treat him with extra special care, and this is what most narcissists live for attention, admiration, instant gratification, validation, and praise.

He will either talk about you in the sense of all the good things that he has done for you, and how good he’s treated you. Painting you out to be dependent on him which would make him the independent figure, the rescuer, and provider. He will talk about how he was there for you, and all that he has done for you, or your family/friends. He talks about you as a way to plant the visionary lies in his new victim head so that she feels that she will be treated nice or in the same manner. This is all manipulation of talking about you to the next victim as a way for the narcissist to get what he wants and establish control.