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Signs You’re Being Manipulated by a Narcissist

Waleed Ahmed
2 min readDec 13, 2024

They choose to manipulate and devalue because they feel that they can. Their behavior is driven by their personality disorder. They can’t love anyone other than themselves, and some of them don’t even love themselves. They feed off other people. They don’t care about you, and they never will. They don’t appreciate your kindness they actually see it as a weakness, and something that they can exploit. Which is one of the reasons why they manipulate and devalue their victims. The longer you stay with them the worse they will treat you. If you’re being manipulated, and devalued then you will most likely be discarded.

They will treat you badly at your weakest point, if they choose to, they can and will abuse you by constantly cheating on you, stealing from you, lying to you, using you, misleading you, and the list goes on. Because at this point, they have complete control. They will erode your sense of reality, your self-worth, self-esteem, self-love, and they will have you in a position where you’re dependent on them. They will also have you questioning your own reality, which is a sign of gaslighting. Narcissists don’t appreciate your authentic love, and your generosity of giving them what they want. They actually feel entitled that you owe them whatever they want or need.

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Waleed Ahmed
Waleed Ahmed

Written by Waleed Ahmed

I'm Waleed Ahmed, and I'm passionate about content related to software development, 3D design, Arts, books, technology, self-improvement, Poetry and Psychology.

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