The Narcissist’s Black-and-White Thinking: A Simplistic Worldview

Anyone can lie…….

A liar is not what describes a narcissist.

A liar can come to you and pretend being Superman, but both of you will laugh and you face him with it, and eventually, he will admit that it was a silly lie.

Narcissists are delusional and fact twisters, they are more than pro-liars. They can display a reality of almost 98% truth, and the 2% untruth that will fuck up your life, to an extent, even the narcissist himself believes it.

This is why, when you confronted them with what you thought it was lies, they will double up x2, x4, x16 exponentially. They can’t see how wrong they are. And when confronted with facts, their toxic shame is triggered and they might rage and bully you back.

And your name will be smeared because you’re a crazy who can not see their version of reality “ that’s how they reduce their dissonance”.

What makes narcissists, narcissists is not lies, but it’s the inverted reality they inhabit and live by, it’s the distorted view of every moral standard that we know as moralists, and you’re not allowed to hold them accountable or criticise them.

This toxic twisted reality is their home.