The Power of Judgment: A Necessary Evil or a Moral Imperative?

Conditionality and judgmentalism

Can you stop being empathetic?
Can you stop being compassionate?
Maybe you should change into a monster for self-defense purposes?

No, not only can an empath never stop being those things but to succeed at being so would be a terrible thing.

Don’t kill off your good traits, instead, learn to impose boundaries.
And healthy boundaries look like these:

Conditionality and judgmentalism.

One of the most perverse popular memes of recent times is unconditionality; unconditional love, unconditional giving, unconditional forgiveness, and unconditional acceptance.

‘Unconditional love’ Google this line and you will get tons of falsehoods.

To give without expectations and in general giving without expecting absolutely anything in return will only serve narcissism and other parasite type personalities.

Entitled ungrateful people love suckers who give only and never judge.

Be wary of anyone who will display bad give & take and never judge.

Bad give & take requires one side to keep losing to play the loser, and that is the role the unconditional giver plays .meanwhile…