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Understanding Why Narcissists Choose Compassionate Victims
People who are easy to influence are attractive to empaths, but they also want the people they control to be powerful. Empaths are powerful in addition to being talented members of society. Your wonderful goodness, genuineness, compassion, and capacity to love are what drew the narcissist to you. He or she was motivated to love you. These are the very characteristics that they do not possess! In light of the fact that they are unable to experience genuine feelings, it follows that they would attach themselves to other people by consuming their positive energy with their bad energy. This is the explanation for both the attraction and the attachment that happens between them.
You were chosen by the narcissist because they were drawn to the wonderful characteristics that you possess. Whatever it is about YOU that is unique and extraordinary is what attracted them in, just as it is with every other connection. Narcissists are able to identify advantageous features in order to further their own interests. The undesirables will undoubtedly come to you if you are making progress in your life, whether it is via the accumulation of riches, the improvement of your physical health or attractiveness, or the establishment of financial security.
They are unable to locate a victim who exhibits empathy, compassion, and love, but they…