When They Reappear: The Real Reasons Narcissists Come Back

Yes, some do come back only if you allow them to come back. Some never come back, hoover, or return. It all depends on who has the best narcissistic supply at the time of their need. It depends on who is easier to manipulate, use, abuse, and mislead. It depends on their wants, needs, and desires at any given time. Some never come back, because they’re comfortable with who they are with, what is being provided, or what they’re doing in life. Consider it a good thing if they have moved on never returning to your life.

A narcissist is never worried or concerned about what you’re doing or if you have moved on with someone else or when they have moved on. They have conditioned victims to wait for them, and take them back, no questions asked. Narcissists, and emotional abusers are very confident you will take them back. They recycle their victims like plastic containers, products, and supplies. They always do things with a motive, there is an underlying motive as to why they are returning. Narcissists are emotionally unavailable, so they don’t come back, because they missed you. They may have missed what you had to offer, but not you as a person. They never live up to their words unless it’s going to benefit them in some way. You didn’t exist to them until they decided to reappear, and this is due to what they want or need from you.