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Why Narcissistic Abuse Makes You Question Yourself
Good Things Come from Leaky Buckets
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Anger is cognitive dissonance.
Anger is betrayal bonds.
Narcissists are hostile and Aggressive by nature, they offend out of compulsion, overtly sometimes and covertly most of the times hiding their real identity while you’re automatically and subconsciously throwing in the towel and giving in.
By this, they will engage is manipulative tactics that distort you cognitively, to deflect, gaslight, and keep their real identity invisible.
Let’s count the damage now……
Humiliation, betrayal, treachery, offense, isolation, insults, loneliness, criticism, judging, filth, defilement, crazy-making, chaos, vandalism, cheating, etc….
Narcissists are doing this while pulling up the mask of a human, regardless if he was a parent or a partner.
Why you’re angry?
Cognitive dissonance is a gap that is hard to be reduced when the reality of the person you thought he is doesn’t meet your expectations.
Trying to force reduction to this mental state makes you angry because it can’t be resolved as the person who abused you and damage was done by having ghosted you.