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Why Narcissists Hate Boundaries and Laws
Boundaries are laws.
Boundaries are rules.
Boundaries are limitations on personal freedom.
Boundaries require obedience. They require compliance.
You cannot do this.
You shall not pass. That’s what boundaries mean.
MeNow hates laws. MeNow is lawless.
MeNow hates rules.
MeNow recognizes no limitations. MeNow desires to be infinitely free to pursue any freedom, even onto whatever perversions, excessive freedom even onto disorder, a headlong pursuit into chaos and ruin.
MeNow refuses to obey. MeNow will never comply.
MeNow hates the word ‘can’t’.
MeNow wants to bulldoze through any barrier.
Harmonization, Conscientiousness, Obedience
Boundaries specifically concerns the third trait of good people, obedience.
Narcissists cannot obey.
They can only rebel.
They are compulsively obsessed with ME and immediacy, NOW.
Their terms are ‘whatever I want, now’.
Boundaries are simply nothing other than a rule for interpersonal interaction.