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Why Narcissists Stop Contact: The Truth Behind the Discard

Waleed Ahmed
3 min readNov 29, 2024

When the narcissist stops all contact with you this would be considered a discard or ghosting. Is it finally over, not necessarily. Social abusers do not normally provide closure, they normally just leave by going no contact. Sometimes they return if things do not work out with the new person that they’re pursuing and deceiving. Stopping all contact and communication with you is their unhealthy way of communication.

When they stop all contact, they are getting their narcissistic supply elsewhere from someone else. They are grooming a new source of supply, target, or prey. They are busy love bombing someone else the same way they love bombed you during the beginning of the relationship. Narcissism is characterized by a grandiose sense of self, and a dysfunctional manner of handling interpersonal relationships. Narcissists lack empathy, they don’t often care about your feelings unless it serves a purpose in their life. When dealing with a narcissist you will encounter several phases, the last stage involved the narcissist getting bored and falling out of love, and then leaving you without much reason. Which is why they stop all contact or will ghost you. Sure, it is humiliating, confusing, and hurtful however everything that they do is governed by their personality disorder. Some stop all contact to intentionally hurt you and keep you confused…

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Waleed Ahmed
Waleed Ahmed

Written by Waleed Ahmed

I'm Waleed Ahmed, and I'm passionate about content related to software development, 3D design, Arts, books, technology, self-improvement, Poetry and Psychology.

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